Oct 2Member-onlyOld Asylums as Haunted Houses?A hard no out of respect for the dead. It’s spooky season again. The veil thins, the decorations come out, and it seems like most people are celebrating my favorite things: ghosts, witches, and everything supernatural. Something that people like to do this time of year is to visit haunted…Eloise4 min readEloise4 min read
Sep 24Member-onlyFuneral ThoughtsA generation leaving TW: Getting older, death and dying I attended my godmother’s funeral last weekend. I’d known her, well, since birth, but haven’t really been in touch for many years. A “coulda, shoulda, woulda” situation. …Death4 min readDeath4 min read
Aug 14Member-onlyEnd of Summer Teacher AnxietyThe new school year begins soon. Two weeks from tomorrow is the first day of school. Well, the first day with students. We teachers go back the week before. Honestly, I’m feeling a bit anxious about it. Last year was pretty good. I started at a new school where there’s…Schools4 min readSchools4 min read
Jul 22Member-onlyPurging the StuffBins of memories. My husband and I will be moving in a few (two? three? maybe?) years. Time enough for him to retire with all that he wants, for Youngest Child to graduate from college and have home close by in the meantime until he figures out what comes next…Cleaning4 min readCleaning4 min read
Jun 22Member-onlyThe Universe is WiseWhen Spirit gives you what you need. I meet with a development group on Zoom once a week. It’s wonderful. I love it. Everyone is warm, supportive, and honest. It’s a safe space, a place to grow, and I look forward to it every week. Last night was particularly intense…Spirituality2 min readSpirituality2 min read
Jun 11Member-onlyAirport ThoughtsPeople watching and anticipation at its best. I went to the airport today. I wasn’t going anywhere, didn’t have a flight, wasn’t meeting anyone, or picking anyone up. I just wanted to be at the airport. My home airport, Detroit Metro (DTW), has a Destination Pass program. You have to…Airports4 min readAirports4 min read
May 29Member-onlyThe Necessity of RestIt’s not lazy to do what you need to do. I had Friday and Monday off work for Memorial Day this year. Lucky, I know. Don’t worry, I paid my dues working holiday weekends for many years, those of you who like to keep track of such things. I know…Rest5 min readRest5 min read
May 20Member-onlyAlone in the TowerA rare and lovely five minutes The Tower of London has always drawn me in. I don’t remember when I first read about it, but I’ve been lowkey obsessed for as long as I can remember, an unexplainable connection. Residual generational memories, perhaps? A few years back, I discovered that…Tower Of London4 min readTower Of London4 min read
Apr 28Member-onlySetting Work BoundariesThe journey to keeping work at work For most of the past three months, I haven’t done much “job” work at home, unlike my previous teaching incarnations. Very few graded papers in the evenings or on the weekends. Very little lesson planning at home. One trip to stock up on…Work Life Balance3 min readWork Life Balance3 min read
Apr 7Member-onlyIn Defense of JudasThe crucial scapegoat We’re almost to Easter. I’ve been too busy to properly recognize the season this year, but it’s in my thoughts. My beliefs on Christianity and spirituality in general have also been evolving, so I don’t feel as compelled to “follow the rules” as I used to. Something…Easter5 min readEaster5 min read